Every body is different, and it may take some time for you and yours to acclimate to using the Magic Banana®.
Here are a few questions to ponder when you set about your journey to self-understanding…
Is the curve of the Magic Banana® in its ‘smiling’ orientation while in use?
Place the Magic Banana® on a flat surface. Notice the curve – the ‘smile’? Keeping the Magic Banana® in this ‘smiling’ orientation, squeeze the loop together and insert the tubing end into your body. Water-based lubrication is recommended.
Take note of the direction of this curve – If the Magic Banana® is inserted with the ‘smile’ facing downward, it will not massage the G-spot as intended and may cause some discomfort. Also note that the black handle is not intended for insertion.
Have you tried using the Magic Banana® in different positions or environments?
For some women, the sensations created when using the Magic Banana® can vary widely depending on how and where they use it. Some prefer lying on their backs, others lying on their fronts and others report having a daily extravaganza with their Magic Banana® standing in the shower.
For some women the bedroom is a private sanctuary for self-exploration, for others, the bathroom is the only place where they can guarantee that they will be undisturbed by others. Creating an environment that allows you to fully focus on yourself will help you to unlock the pleasures of the Magic Banana®.
Are you holding your breath, anxious or expecting a particular outcome?
Watch. Pay attention. How comfortable are you in your body? How ‘open’ are you to deepening your relationship with yourself? What do you want or hope to experience or gain by engaging with the Magic Banana®? Can you let go of your expectation of the outcome … even just for now … so you can stay present, with yourself, in the moment?
As for the exercise aspect, like many exercise routines and even weight loss – depending on what you start with, sometimes it can take a good while to really notice any difference, and then all of a sudden – you have an a-ha moment – and you realize ‘YES! *This* is what I’ve been doing this for!’ – you’ve discovered something new about yourself! Unlocked something.
Be patient. Relax. And keep exploring.